Same fight, different day? I get it. Couples often find themselves in what feels like the same fight throughout their marriage, reacting more from past wounds than from the present situation. When people feel hurt, they use ineffective behaviors designed to be protective that trigger their partner’s historical wounds. The partner then shifts into their own protective behaviors that keep that pattern going, just as the infinity symbol repeats. I take a systematic approach to identify your trigger loop and the original wounds that are fueling your reactivity, so you can build connection through your differences and be more loving and cherishing.